More oft than not, programming dictates what we want, how we want it, etc., big and small. Many stand by idly fantasizing about the new car, big houses, record deals, women, things instead of why they want it. Why? Unfortunately, it is normal in this society we tell people to be true to themselves but neither teach it or be true to ourselves.Instead, we set up unrealistic expectations and vicariously live through others instead of achieving our own. Break the system!! Take out some time to figure out the whys and whats. Perhaps you will realize that all you have to do to achieve what you want is to be just you.